We must be aware that there is currently a widespread use of the internet and social networks that causes easy access (very quickly and immediately) to porn movies and sexual content, thus allowing massive consumption of free porn.
The pros of watching porn movies on beezporno
An aid to overcome prejudices and enrich the sexuality of a relationship
In principle, this is neither good nor bad. Porn can be a positive or negative tool depending on how we use it and from the perspective we analyze it.
If we focus on the positive, the sexual imaginary can expand, fueling fantasies. Ideas can also be gained, it can allow us to increase our resources to apply in sexual relations within reality (knowing that what we see in porn movies is fiction). All this can generate a richer and more varied sexuality in the couple as long as both agree to carry out everything we set out to do.
At the same time, it can help make it easier for us to get aroused. It is a content that is prepared to generate desire and delve into sexuality, so it can be a good ally at times when we may lack a plus to “activate ourselves sexually”.
The presence of this type of material has also helped, from a social point of view, to eliminate taboos and prejudices regarding sex. There is more and more talk about sexuality, more things are known, and that would have been very difficult if we had not had the vision of sex so within our reach. Another positive point of cinema X is the willingness to practice varied and innovative erotic activities, which today are part of our real practices.
It is also important to differentiate how to use this content, individually or as a couple . Of course this depends on each one, their preferences and their relationship with their partner. The use can be the same or very different. Alone tends to be used to facilitate arousal; and as a couple more like a game and an addition to incorporate a plus of novelty to the relationship and the couple’s game.
Be aware that we are facing a fiction
Keep in mind that porn movies is like the movies: not everything is 100% real. On the contrary, there is a lot of cheating, what we see is edited material, clean, and where we are only shown the most “interesting”. It takes us to a fictional world, too perfect that can end up causing us frustration when we compare it with our real sexuality.
Many studies have been done on the influence of porn movies in our lives and one of the conclusions is that the fact of watching Xxx movies frequently leads us to perceive our partner as less attractive.
We cannot forget the effect of social learning, learning by observation. Porn conditions us and affects our behavior. Some current examples of how the stereotypes that appear in porn videos have „contaminated” or conditioned real life are:
• The tendency of removing hair from intimate areas
• Straight men and women experimenting with anal sex
• Tendency to turn sexual relations into a serious and passionate moment where humor no longer has a place
• Increased practice of certain awkward and acrobatic postures
But what we really have to be aware of is that porn movies produces very marked stereotypes: it tells us what it is to be a man and what it is to be a woman, reinforcing behavior patterns; It tells us which are the ideal bodies and which is the correct sexuality. All these aspects, among others, greatly influence the patterns of sexual behavior of today’s adolescents.
The cons of watching porn movies
The danger of addiction and getting frustrated with “real” sex
The sexual learning of young people is increasingly influenced by porn movies, mainly because they have easy access to it and, secondly, because there is still a lack of communication and sexual education in homes and schools. This means that they have wrong ideas of what real sexuality is, which generates pressure, insecurities and false myths.
Another relevant fact is the growing addiction and dependency on porn movies. Many people are getting used to always using porn as a way to get turned on, and that leads to several difficulties. The first is that, being exposed to so much sexualization, afterwards, the intimate moments that are generated in a real relationship with a partner are not exciting. Day-to-day sexuality is not very motivating, which implies a lack of desire and, consequently, a lack of lubrication or erection problems. In short, sexual desire as a couple is lost and is replaced by masturbation through porn, due to its ease and high arousal.
The ease of access to free porn site movies can create a compulsive urge to consume it.
On the other hand, by getting a quick turn-on and discharge, porn videos creates a lot of dependency. The consumer ends up having a compulsive need: it turns you on in seconds, it makes you disconnect from your problems, it relaxes you when you reach climax, you have a wide variety of practices, etc. And the most complex thing is that, in seconds, with a simple mobile, you can access it at any time and place, which affects the ease of generating the addictive pattern.
It is advisable to use erotic cinema as an option, not as a necessity (neither for learning nor for excitement). Now there is a new trend on the rise, audio porn, which is revolutionizing the xxx porn industry. It consists of erotic stories told exclusively through the ear. The positive thing about this alternative is that it encourages imagination through the word. Hearing is a very important sense in sexuality, and we shouldn’t reduce it all to classic porn movies. You can browse any paid or free porn site and find the materials you like to watch.
